Monday, February 21, 2011

Training and renaming.

Ass becomes pussy, cock become clit.

As I continue my training regime (as laid out in the last post and pictured above) My Master has recently renamed my body parts and it makes one wonder why.  Why I can no longer say that my cock is hard but have to say that my clit is hard, why when she wants to use her strap on on me..she doesn't want to fuck my ass..but my pussy.  Its been an adjustment that I still find hard.   Deleting the word cock and replacing it with clit often when typing to her..or when she wants me to beg to be fucked having to remember to beg her to fuck my pussy.  When asked about it, my Master told me that as I train I am to contemplate why she made these changes to me and to then write about it.  Here goes my attempt to write why I think the name change is important to Her.

I think its multiple reasons.  I think the word cock brings forth images of power, penetration, hardness, steel, dominance and strength.  And those are not qualities a sub's sex organ should possess while being trained to become a sub.  The name clit, brings forth images of pleasure, femininity, small, wet, desire, elusive. Thus the change is in part feminization (something that Master says she truly isn't into), humiliation, and control.  It no longer penetrates (unless desired like a toy) but does leak and get wet (like a clit).  Its power and hardness is transferred into pleasure and desire (even soft is sometimes preferred).  So my quest, my job is to stop thinking of it like a cock...and more like a clit.  To stop worrying about its hardness (unless that is required) as a sign of its pleasure and to remind myself that is leaks as a sign of pleasure. To refocus my attention from the hardness of my cock to the wetness of my clit.  To expand my understanding of pleasure.

The ass to pussy thing is a little more clear.  Both sexes have an ass.  A male has an ass that is strong and firm, a female has an ass that is tight and small. But when it comes to penetration a pussy is penetrated more so than an ass.  Calling my ass a pussy is another way of feminization as well as humiliation and control.  A man fucks a pussy....a man says a person is a pussy as a sign of weakness and insult.  A pussy is penetrated...a pussy is used...a pussy is a hole that is taken. A pussy is filled with a cock, a pussy is covered by panties.  A pussy cums from a cock fucking it.  Therefore my males ass wouldn't work as well to be used in such a way unless it is transformed and made into a pussy.  It needs to be a source of pleasure that makes my clit wet, it needs to by used my master as a way of showing her power and authority.  It needs to be penetrated and rammed into as way of knowing my place is beneath her and that I am weak to her power. It needs to be open and available as a way of showing my growing comfort in being made into her willing slut and whore.

7 comments:

Suzanne said...

I like it. Great training mechanism. Words can be a very powerful thing! clitty and pussy....very appropriate.

HERsubmissivehusband said...

my Wife forbids me to call my penis a dick or a cock...Her lovers have cocks...i have a penis...or a pee-pee...and they belong to Her...She does sometimes refer to it as a clit...She does take me up the ass on a pretty regular basis...She hasn't started calling my asshole a pussy yet...though She probably will after reading this!...

lightspeed said...

It's an ideal wording expression that is most strongly frank and exciting. Very eroctic!...Sub Randy

Anonymous said...

Take it from this gay male spanko: you have great legs, man. Show 'em off more. Maybe your strict lady should read this and make you pose nude more often. Maybe on all fours with your cheeks open so even gay guys like me can enjoy you. Are you blushing yet?

Anonymous said...

i have been trained in similar fashion. i was told, "men have cocks, boys have pee-pees, you are a sissy like some type of girl, you have a pussy, a clit, below that labia, so call it that or your wee-wee, you sit to pee and when you get excited, you are to tell me you are getting wet or my pussy is wet Mistress, do you understand?"
sissy cindy lynn

whyguys said...

The re-naming as ''clitty' is a nice feminine touch... but perhaps the male psyche might deflate yet more if a few other terms might also be used in his redefinition of self.

Always thought an interesting substitution would be the ego-shrinking reference of that poor inadequate male "ARTIFICIAL DILDO"!

subhubby1968 said...

Very well said!